Man, I'm sorry, wishful. I can't say I'm surprised, though, after your post about his decision to quit his job. Are the two related? Do you know if he got fired?
You are gonna be OK. I know how you are feeling right now--been in your shoes. Here's what I did--I got myself to every Al-Anon meeting I could possibly get to, and hung in there until my head stopped spinning so I could decide what I wanted out of my life. And that was to get OFF the merry-go-round.
Just keep telling yourself, "I'm gonna be OK. No matter what, I am gonna be OK." And you will do the right thing for yourself.
Hugs, you sure have had a sucky couple of days.