I definately am the big "C", and I know that. I plan on attending Al-Anon meetings, I have already made my mind up about that. Currently, I am trying to get him out of the house and go back to his sick relationship with his ex-girlfriend who he seems to think he's so in love with. They both are facing jail time (again), and I told him if he's so miserable, then he needs to go and be with her and live happy if that's what's going to make him happy. He sits around and sulks all day long, and I can't stand it, because I know what is going through his mind. I never thought of myself as a week person, but in this situation, I am. I will check in and let you all know what happens. Thanks for all your support and thanks for allowing me to vent.