Welcome Bobbysocks. You are definitely in the right place and have already received some great suggestions. Sounds like it is time for you to make a plan. I second/third/whatever seeing an attorney, calling a domestic violence center, etc. I'm concerned that your AH's verbal abuse could turn physical if you attempt to kick him out of the house without support.
The other thing for you is to take good care of yourself...check out Al-Anon (there are some meetings on-line if you can't go in person), educate yourself about alcoholism, abuse, etc. Making a plan and getting educated really helped to ease my anxiety. You're on your way, keep reading & posting.