This has been a challenge for me, a big "get it done" person, I have difficulty letting God do the work. Forcing change, that's my business!!
That's not how it works in this program. I just do the step, then I allow God to do what I can't do for myself. So simple, just ask God to do it. But I can make it so complicated!! I remember how frustrated I was in the first couple weeks after taking step seven because I didn't wake up one morning with these defects gone!! Sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly... It's a process, I keep praying about it. "Strive for an attitude of willingness and humility" That's good advice! I don't care who you are!