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Let her find her own groups and you find your own groups.
QUOTE=onipar;4037884]Wow, thank you! I didn't even notice the "we" thing. I was so happy to hear her say that she wanted help, that I immediately slipped into the "we," telling her I'd be there for her and help her through it, etc.
So I have to just let her do this on her own (with groups, etc)?
I'm glad I posted, because I think I would have handled this the wrong way.
For instance, should I be looking for groups for her, or should I tell her to do that on her own?
Thanks![/QUOTE]