Detachment question
Why is it detachment so hard?
I know he is not what I want. I know I don't want to be with him. He disrespected me, broke my heart, lied to me, and was so unstable when he used to drink. I am learning to care for him, but not having him in my life.
I still can't believe he is over 100 days sober and going so strong. I am happy for him, but at the same time upset because I am just stuck and feeling miserable and feel SO attached to him even when we don't talk.
Anyhow, WHY is it detachment so hard? He feels like my drug.
Any advice for this process is greatly appreciated.