I'm reading you too, also not knowing what to say....
Geez, he's terminal and they won't give him pain meds? That seems inhumane. Terrible! What the hell do they think they're protecting him from? ...grrr, that's just not right....
I can see why you took on the task. Sometimes it seems like life would be easier if we could turn off the "caring" switch......sigh
But then, you see people who *have* turned theirs off and it's not something you would want to be.
I'm glad you and your daughter have a therapist, and I'm glad to know you have a fiance so that you have loving, sane (I'm assuming
) support.