Hello everyone. I think Hammer just hit the nail on the head. SR is a support forum. It should be used for the purpose it was intended. Since this particular forum is to help friends and family of alcoholics share and overcome issues of codependency, a poster should respect this boards policies. It appears that the op has not been very empathetic in the way she is triggering many of these members. It appears to be a game that she is playing. If a poster continually "triggered" addicts or alcoholics on the subs abuse forum than the credibility of this site would be compromised. Why should this forum be any different?