Whoah, Whoah!
I just wanted to add something here-
While many of us have attacked the verbosity of MTs posts; my quote was basically admitting that whatever negative feelings I had toward the posts were stemming from my past and my context. Just because I perceive MTs posts as pompous and "not genuine" doesn't mean they're not. And if I am triggered, that is my fault, not hers.
MT, I wish you and Hero all the best, but I think before you make another post regarding your relationship, you should re-read all the amazing advice you have been given. Read the stickies, read the other posts. Be humbled by the wealth of experience and depth of love that comes through this board. I was. And it was that support that keeps me coming back here.