You said you only drink a bottle of wine a night on the week days..but then you said you drank 2 bottles last night and you also drink at work.
How big is the bottle of wine?
I would be mortified to wake up regularly soaked in my own urine (and I only sleep with my dog and cat). You are ruining your health and your looks at age 30. What does your husband think about you're actions and the scent on the couch?
If you are not committed to stopping, you won't....using your husband's work, your friends and saying you "drink while attending AA, might need to get a divorce are just excuses to justify your actions.
When you want to stop..you will and you can. I do hope you decide sooner rather than later.