Originally Posted by
fantail 
Re-entry always sucks... I hear you on the unrealistic plans. I know I've mentioned I've done a lot of moving in and out of the country and yet somehow I never learn that very basic lesson, so I think you've got a leg up by recognizing that. Setting realistic expectations is so important.
And yeah, this is the most important part. I used to get really depressed because going home meant "THE END" and that meant changing everything all over again. I need to view this as just another place to live for a couple months before I move on again. Keeping an open mind is important too - who knows, maybe I'll meet my dream girl and stumble upon my dream job next week in Chicago! I also have to remember to be practical, and not to get ahead of myself - don't start planning that trip to Indonesia just yet. Take my time, eat well, learn, study, rest, and don't force anything. Thanks again for your post and letting me voice my stuff etc.