Hopefully she is sincere about wanting to get help. SHE needs to be the one getting it though. Unfortunately, the things she said are classic A. They tend to know what to say and when in order to avoid certain things (like you ending the relationship.) Her actions over the next few months will show you whether she meant it or not. My STBXAH gave me lip service quite frequently when he knew it would benefit him. He would even go a month or so without drinking...but it always came back and I should have seen the signs, because he wouldn't do the work. It was all just to apease me. Just take a step back and watch her actions. You will know soon enough whether she is serious about helping herself. Good luck