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Old 06-27-2013, 07:28 AM
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Nope, he's not drinking and fighting w/you b/c of something you didn't do around the house. It's not your fault. It's b/c he is an alcoholic.

As others have said, do some reading on this site. I would also highly recommend that you find an Alanon meeting and go. You'll learn a lot there.

You can surely stay with him as long as you want. However, he will only get worse and worse as time passes. Would you rather find yourself in this situation when you are 34 or 44 instead of 24?

Again, take some time to educate yourself. This is a disease. Love and logic will not affect its course one bit. Until he decides he has a problem and seeks help, there is not a damn thing you can do for him.

Sorry if that seems harsh, but that's the way it is....
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