but I need someone to babysit me
You need to be babysitting yourself. A sponsor's responsibility is to guide someone thru the steps of AA, or just the sober journey. A sponsor isn't a babysitter and shouldn't be telling you what to do or not do. That's on you.
I understand your not going to AA in your small town but don't think it's a good idea to 'hire' a babysitter for your sobriety.