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Old 06-25-2013, 12:59 AM
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mecanix
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Defining and supporting my personal boundaries is part of my campain to stay sane enough to stay sober .

My people pleaser side comes out , I was one of the few drunks who used to get panhandled by other people .

I gave away a perfectly good car once just because i couldn't be botherd with it and someone random person was bemoaning not having one . Not really something i could afford to give away .

I give what i can afford to give but i have had to re-asess what i can aford to give people, emotionaly and materialy .

Bestwishes, M
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