Defining and supporting my personal boundaries is part of my campain to stay sane enough to stay sober .
My people pleaser side comes out , I was one of the few drunks who used to get panhandled by other people .
I gave away a perfectly good car once just because i couldn't be botherd with it and someone random person was bemoaning not having one . Not really something i could afford to give away .
I give what i can afford to give but i have had to re-asess what i can aford to give people, emotionaly and materialy .
Bestwishes, M