Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl 
But WTBH, this is what he DOES.
With all due respect, I am surprised at this point that you still react emotionally to his BS. That he still has power over you to make you doubt yourself and your judgement.
Yeah that's what I said at the start I think.... that it surprises me too that usually it can roll right off me and this week it's making me crazy and I have real self doubt.
I'm tired, I have been sick, my boss sucks and I am ready for some down time with my kids so I am overly emotional I have no doubt...
Maybe it just has been a while since he so blatantly hurt them and didn't care and it caught me by surprise how sad I am to know they will be hurt so many more times...
I think it's about a lot more than just letting him get to me... I have been in therapy and taken time off largely bc I can't manage to get there and I think all my self doubts and questioning myself is a pretty clear indicator I need some help!