Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
So, it angers me that he thinks and would accuse me of finding joy in his f' up because I felt nothing but sadness and hurt all day-- I wish I'd felt joy or even anger. That would have been more comfortable I think...
But WTBH, this is what he DOES.
With all due respect, I am surprised at this point that you still react emotionally to his BS. That he still has power over you to make you doubt yourself and your judgement.
And I say this kindly, because I know recognizing the big shiny steel hooks coming our way is challenging. Often, we don't see them until they are hanging off our lip.
He's good at hooking you. You need to be better at seeing them coming.
Sure, I have moments where I wish my girls' Dad would be more accessible and available, but in the end, their relationship with him is none of my business nor within my control.
You handled the situation perfectly. Who gives a sh!t what he thinks?!