I have been having a hard time telling them "I know Daddy loves you" because then I get questions about why does he do x, y, z... The girls have a book about alcoholism from their therapist so I have explained that he has a disease that sometimes makes him not be able to make good choices (that I think angers him even though HE years ago is the one who told them when he went to rehab that he was going to learn to make better choices)...
I am just tired of being blamed for HIS choices... Ugh.