WoW, have things changed since I was in the divorce game. In Maryland, at that time, even with signed seperation papers, I was warned by my lawyer to not be seen or caught in a compromising situation with the opposite sex---meaning sex----that that would be leaving me open for an adultry charge (if the other spouse saw fit). I could be in the presence of a man--riding in car; eating at restaurant; attending a movie . Not to be seen publicly kissing, holding hands, eating from same ice-cream cone, etc.....
Funny story--At one time, the minimum time for separation time was 2yrs. of no co-habitation. Then the sitting governor of Maryland had a horrible divorce while in the governor's mansion--wife refused to leave the premises. Suddenly, the separation time became 1yr. (I benefited from the change--yea!)
It was walking a fine line......
dandylion