Dear wtbh, I am saying that once a man is amored, that agenda does not end. Like the dog begging at the dinner table--they will stay the longest time....waiting in anxious anticipation that Perhaps...PERHAPS, a crumb might drop their way.
I am not saying that he may not be a lovely man--may he is---but whether he is or not....
he is a male who is attracted to you. Oh, they will say that they "understand" and that they "get it", but they will secretly keep all their senses alert to the possibility that you will "change" your mind.
Do you secretly hope for something more--even though your head tells you that a declaration of "friendship, only" is more expedient. If so, you would not be the first woman to do so...(LOL).
I am just saying to be honest with yourself; know the truth about the nature of man; and watch very carefully for the rocks in the river!
I am on YOUR side.
dandylion