We are not divorced thanks to xAH being a game playing a$$ who will not agree to anything. He and his a$$ of a lawyer keep finding bs to complain about and will not finalize the separation agreement. We DO have a legal separation agreement which in my state is exactly like a divorce-- as in depth as the divorce agreement I mean-- I just can't get remarried or change my name until he agrees to finalize the separation agreement to a divorce...
The dragging out of the divorce is his way to keep me attached to him and I am not putting my life and friendships on hold bc of it.
I won't be in any kind of relationship beyond friendship with anyone- I am not interested in that-- and my old friend knows that (I did say that clearly at the gym)... So, I am going to give him a call in a few days and maybe we will take up running together again once in a while or something...