Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
SAnyway, that's how the day was... Am I wrong to be thinking about getting together sometime?
WTBH, I am so glad the day went as well as it did.
Your girls will not appreciate being spoken to like that as they get older, trust me.
As for the friend, like Suki said, be careful. But go for it! You deserve some friends and a chance at a new life, right? Just be careful - with the friend's feelings as well as dragging him through some serious dysfunction.
Maybe you can start by being very clear about your boundaries right now with the friend. I have a great guy friend who I know would like to date me; we talked openly about it and I told him the timing was off for us, and I respected him too much to drag him through my own issues. He appreciated me being open about it, and who knows...maybe one day timing will be right...
So go have a good time. God knows you deserve it!