I was told in treatment, I needed to make amends to people who hurt me and I can't seem to wrap my mind around this. My mind keeps telling me they were the ones in the wrong. I absolutely didn't deserve the abuse inflicted upon me. I have forgiven them for my own peace of mind, but I don't think that is making amends. I've, also, forgiven myself for putting myself in that situation, but again that is not making amends. Some of the abuse continues to haunt me, so I know there is more work to be done. As I was struggling with this this morning, it suddenly dawned on me, maybe I need to make amends for the horrible thoughts of revenge I've had and the hatred I've held in my heart. Do you think this could be it?