Thank you so much. And.....she actually just called me two more times about an hour ago, but my ringer is off.
So...... there are some ways that the relationship affected me that I never told her. I could give her examples of how seriously bad it got. I don't know if I should say that to her or not. Maybe depending on her disposition.
What do people think about saying that? "I broke down at work a few times over you at my new, improved job during my probationary period." Stuff like that... I mean it would drive home the point of the fact that there is an issue with the relationship. But that's more my issue than hers. I already know that if she is acting ticked, I won't share it, but...