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Old 06-09-2013, 11:01 AM
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lilyB2013
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I'm so sorry you're going through all this-- I know how much kicking the codependent habit is so difficult!

I think you're on an amazing path, though, not answering her calls and putting some distance there. Be aware that the next opportunity she manages to get a hold of you, she will attempt to tear you down and project some of her issues onto you again. I had a bunch of that with my AXBF, who saw me getting better, happier, and ultimately more distant, and would take ANY opportunity to try and pull me down into misery again. I think it wasn't intentional, but a force of the addiction. Misery likes company, you know?

You're doing amazing.
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