Hello again. It's been 3 months since I've been on here.
I have been successful in letting go of controlling anything to do with her drinking.
I've seen her go from drinking 750 ml bottle of wine to drinking 1.5 liters of wine. At least 3 nights a week, sometimes 6. I've let her live how she wants.
Still, not good enough. She finds excuses why I'm not doing the right thing, or accuses me of belittling, judging or being passive aggressive. None of which I do.
She put her deposit it down and signed the lease on a new place to move for July 1 today. I just found out her intentions yesterday, and after not helping but 100-200 on total bills and buying groceries 1/2 time, she's managed to come up with a deposit and pay rent monthly. I feel used. I feel sad and angry. Although, I know this is for the best. Just thought I'd update.