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fini i had to come to accept that my supposed free choice was compromised by alcoholism; that this was part and parcel of that condition for me.
I think this aptly fits with my perspective. Or maybe more like, 'at times I choose not to have free choice and let the alcoholic run free'. If that makes sense. That's only been true since early Feb, though, when I learned there's a difference between ME and IT. (Before then I was just trying to stop the bickering voices in my head, still believing some form of moderation was possible, etc.)
I'll give the Life Ring book a try. Thanks.