I am not trying to control anything here, am I?!
um yeah kinda.
you are totally future tripping about that stuff that isn't even close to happening and much of which is outlandish enough to probably not even be a possibility.
on the one hand you heap all kinds of ill will upon him and his character, say that he is robbing your children of a future, but then when you start thinking about where this might go legally, you suddenly determine what is TOO harsh. so you have made yourself victim, judge AND jury.