Sorry you are going through this...my ex broke up with me about a month ago. Drama the last week...drinking, lying, and oh yea...cheated on me and is now dating this person who he met at work and introduced to me a year or so ago. Hurts like hell I know...glad you are getting support. Read what some of these other women have posted throughout this site that have stayed with their alcoholic husbands and the long term effects on the kids, themselves, etc even if and when they do get sober most of the time by that time so much damage has been done that a lot of resentment and bitterness is there. I know Al Anon says a lot about learning how to find serenity in this kind of relationship but honestly...it has to take it's toll.