Originally Posted by
rry1177 
I've actually made that list one poster mentioned, and I got so mad I threw it away.
Glad that worked for you--I do a similar thing for similar reasons as I try to observe and work thru things and eventually come to a decision, and I'm glad to see there are others who believe it to be a useful tool and not a way to "keep score" or worry about what someone else is doing to the exclusion of minding my own business and working on myself.
Sometimes you just don't have a clear picture unless you can paint one for yourself! And it can be quite a surprise when you see it for the first time.....