WOW......I don't even have kids, and this infuriates me, WTBH. I'm sorry, but what an *******!!!!! I agree with the advice above - respond calmly and then have something fun planned for you and your girls. And you know what? THAT is what they'll remember years down the road, the time their Dad was so concerned about getting wasted with his friends that he didn't even want to see them for Father's Day, but their amazing Mom still found a way to make the day special for them! Sending hugs to you and your girls!!