Sunshinegirl,
Please empower yourself ! This in not Ok! I also have witnessed the progression of this disease. I had a similar event happen last year but instead of the heat, it was the cold and my STBAEH refused to let me close the windows because he like it cold. Keep in mind I had just finished a round of radiation and this drunk a&$ wanted to keep the windows open on a fifty degree night . There comes a point where you have to stand up for yourself. I called the police and told them it was time they got to know me. It takes courage but at some point I had to say enough! Please you deserve better and only you know your AH and what he might do. Please be safe but please scream ENOUGH.....I'm not taking this anymore. Stay safe and we're with you in spirit.