Gisele, here is the link for a thread that I started a while ago on the difference between resentment and rage. Lots of people had very perceptive comments about it.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...t-we-call.html
Hydrogirl is quite right. You have been wronged, deeply, and you are entitled to feel anger. In some ways, I think we have to feel and process that anger to let go of it.
ShootingStar1