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jkb Will I "violate my big plan?"... will I "relapse"... "slip". Nope. One thing I am sure of is that if I decide to drink then I decide to drink...PERIOD. No relapse here... preplanned getting wasted. REALLY REALLY WASTED.
Hi Jess,
Having a Big Plan means you can no longer make any decisions about drinking. No more "yes because ..." or "not now because ...". The only response possible is "Oh, yeah, never." It really helped me quickly disconnect the old desire from the rest of my complicated life.
So, if you believe you still have a choice about drinking, you can still make the real Big Plan and take that choice away from yourself forever. You do know that you have the capacity to do that, don't you?
GT