i see I did have some advice on your first thread.
Well, Springs, you have to just keep moving.
One day at a time, one step at a time.
The things you have been ignoring and overlooking are staring you in the face now,
and man, I know that sucks.
but there is AlAnon, and you friends and here.
Your husband will choose his way too.
You need to start working on your way.
Beth