Originally Posted by
amy55 
I don't know how to answer this. Are you still hoping your marriage can still work out, or are you just done?
Step 4 is best done with a sponsor, as far as I know. Is he really remorseful, or will he just use it against you now, if you told him exactly how you felt?
Never did a step 4, I'm sure other wise people will come along.
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Absolutely NO I don't want any part of marriage in general again, and also certainly not with an addict. That is a lesson I only had to learn once. I've had no contact with him...through the divorce or after. Only two conversations. So I'm flying blind...no idea at all what he has in mind, or where he is at.