Dear campbell, I think what Everhopeful and Blueskies spoke of---the delights of discovering sexual passion for the first time---sure does add a dimension to the intensity with which we cling to the relationship--even when other aspects turn out to be faulty--this is something that is seldom touched on in the postings, here.
Those of us will little experience in life or very low self-esteem can feel like that "magic" only existed one time and is lost to us forever.
There are 7 billion humans on this planet--roughly 50% are male---31/2 billion.
Not ALL of those men can be F*****-up. The magic can happen again--and m uch better when it comes in a healthy wrapping!!! (we have to get healthy to attract it, though).
Great thread!!
dandylion