if you are working our method right, this will not happen. the fact that this happened proves that you did not work the method properly. no matter what you say about how you "worked" it, you couldn't have done it right.
I do believe this. Regardless of what a person does to quit, if their goal is abstinence and they drink again, they have not met their goal. They did not "do it right". Something somewhere went wrong. I don't see how else to look at it. It's not a judgement on that person or the method, it's simply a fact. There was an obvious glitch. Since a method is a thing to be applied, it's not the method that "works" per se, but the person that works to apply the method. So, for me the key is, what will I do to ensure meeting my goal?