Like the saying goes:
If life keeps asking you the same questions....You are NOT learning the lessons...
I have learned so many lessons from the wonderful people here at SR I truly own so much gratitude to so many who shared their wisdom and advice and examples of their own recovery.
Like many who first come to SR I was solely focused on fixing or repairing the addict in my life so that MY life would be better, happier. I heard the cold hard truth about relationships with addicts/alcoholics and was just not ready to accept that truth or learn the lesson.
Today my life is very different from when I was not thinking or acting for myself in healthy ways. Today I put me first and I no longer feel selfish or guilty for doing so.
I have peace of mind instead of all that crazy jumbled drama nonsense that was constantly rolling around in my thoughts.
So thank you all again for helping me become who I am today.