Originally Posted by
love4menotu 
Hi mamkit-
I visualize myself as a castle - and I'm being assaulted by arrows.
The arrows just bounce off my castle walls.
Good luck-
L
I love this visualization, love4menotu!
A fortress around my heart.
I am in my castle. I am safe and free from worry.
In my castle there is peace and serenity.
Almost over, Mamkit. So close.
I also love what Allavita said. Imagine that white light, filling you with peaceful power.
From what you have written in just this one post, it seems as though your soon to ex is in no position to argue anything.
If it helps, my ex arrived at mediation smelling of booze, red in the face and had his crack voice. (unmistakeable to me).
He was doing what addicts do.
It is sad, but it will NO LONGER be your problem.
oh, another mantra!
Not my problem. (referring to your STBX's antics sober or drunk.)
Actually, I think the last mantra is meant for me. My adult children.
I am in my castle, safe and free from worry.
Thinking of you MamaKit.
Beth