Thread: A year on..
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Old 05-29-2013, 06:52 AM
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Bluegalangal
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It doesn't sound much like recovery to me. but more to the point, you are worth more. I have been struggling too, and to realize its still all about him, all the time, what he feels, how he's reacting, everything...

I don't know how you learn empathy or if it can be taught but I think without it, there is no real foundation to a relationship. I would rather be alone than worrying all the time about what someone else is going to do or how he feels, especially when there is no one to worry about me or how I feel.

Sometimes I wish for what I cannot get- a husband who is emotionally attached,
You know what you want... Someone who is emotionally capable of being in a relationship.

That's not too much to ask.
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