Well, I am most likely the friend that was really loud and annoying. In fact, I know I was. One of my friends told me that they were happy that I quit drinking because I am obnoxious and etc when I drink....I moved away from all my friends last year.. So, I do not have any friends that i hang out with here. I do get where you are coming from. I understand that you are not trying to judge. We can see ourselves in people at times.