You could look at those thoughts/words from your AV as cruel...or you could look at them as yet another ridiculous attempt at getting what it wants. MY response to IT would be "Nice try, stupid". Even that is giving IT more attention than is warranted. Remember...IT would love for you to feel wounded by these thoughts. Ridiculousness really, once you see it for what it is
Everything from the AV is rubbish...treat it accordingly. Into the bin it goes without so much as a backward glance.