Originally Posted by
fini 
RDB it been my experience some people have an embedded need to question, critique, debate and try and create dissension with just about everything and everyone.
yes, i have a need. and that is to understand.
yes, i ask questions. because i might get better understanding from how someone responds.
they are questions out of interest.
they are not critiques, or debates, and good heavens i don't want to create dissension.
i don't understand why/how my post was so misunderstood.
sorry it caused such grief to some;
but will continue to ask questions.
My post was in no way
directly related to you or your post, fini, and I personally experienced no "grief" over what you typed.
I do think at times, we are trying so hard to find our own understanding, we sometimes end up inadvertently stepping on the toes of someone else who has realized an important part of
their journey.
I think it very important to allow someone else to experience moments of growth and clarity, without questioning it, even if we don't necessarily "get" it.
I'm very happy for RDB.
That's all.