English: what a beautiful reply, thank you so much for that.
You say "Al-Anon was exactly where I needed to be when alcoholism overtook my personal life in marriage to an alcoholic. I needed the education and the structure it offered me week after week. But if I ever think I will not be okay without the meetings, then I think I have narrowed my view too much of the many ways in which one's Higher Power can contact the deep Self"
You're right, I needed the structure it offered me at the time, but now it's time to move on. Not to say I won't attend another meeting, but I will no longer attend weekly.