makes sense you guys.
here is what I don't understand:
crazy making. saying one thing then swearing up and down the next day they didn't say that. I understand that. why we choose to doubt ourselves I don't understand.
scapegoating. Starting fights as an excuse to use. then when we ignore them they use anyways.
if we fight. we "make them use" if we ignore we "make them use"
they never just go get high because they want to.
and sometimes we foolishly believe them.
I agree we choose to deal with it if we don't block and walk. si then why do so many of us play the role of victim? we are only victims once.
I just don't get the codependent mind. I don't.
addicts only chase the drug and cash out and get angry qhwn they can't have it.
I think that I have chased attention and respect and human love and get depressed when I font get it.
why? why isn't god and my children enough?