I figured out (quite by accident actually) how to take a screen shot of each page of texts (and xAH has the read receipt feature turned on on his phone so I can see that he has received and read my texts which makes it handy for when he claims I did not communicate something).
So, I have each and every text from the last many many months saved in iPhoto (and backed up to my external hard drive).
The judge did not seem interested in the past ones yesterday but I am keeping all the ones from the next 30 days and hopefully if they continue as last nights did that will matter when we go back.
It's exhausting to not get help from the court... I guess he will have to do something worse than the stuff he's already done(?) before the idiot court system here holds him accountable.
No wonder he thinks he is "special"... he is given more chances by the law than he deserves and it sucks for me and the girls.