Thanks John. I've grown so much and I know I'm a better person since quitting. Inner peace & confidence is a million times better, but every now and then I question my dateability. Which is crazy I suppose as, if I didn't have a past drinking problem, there would be something else to fixate on.
Threshold, I love what you say. It's made me feel so much better. We are NOT defined by what we do or do not ingest.
Ahhh JoeNerv I love that! A commodity. I'm never going to forget that and I'm going to use it with abandon. If I was a computer, I'd never crash and lose data
Hey soberclover. Yes I'm still here. Daily in fact. I read lots, post when I think I can offer some help or understanding but I haven't started a thread in ages. I'm so glad I stated this as I've got some great insight and strength and I'm feeling much better. I realise I'm still new to this but it's good to talk!
Thanks everyone for your input. It's really appreciated.
S x