Terrispots

I have no idea what is right or wrong. I dont know what is acceptable behavior.

I dont know where to find out these things.

At my Al Anon meetings we talk about focusing on ourselves, not getting into other people's yuck. We talk about codependency, not trying to fix others, etc.

So when I need advice from others like me, people who are going to understand my pain and where I am coming from, when I need to know if I am out of line or if the boundaries I am TRYING to establish are reasonable, if my behavior is reasonable, WHO DO I ASK?