Welcome back Ryan
I thinK, if we drink enough, it gets to a point where only one thing matters - you can't drink anymore, not if you want to get out of this and get your life back.
You can rebuild, and you can live a happy and full life sober - but it will take a lot of time effort discipline and patience for a while...
Be prepared to do whatever it takes, do everything you can , keep reaching out for support as much as you need to - and you'll get there Ryan
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